The Amplified Bible puts it like this:
"And let the wife see that she respects her husband---
that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him,
venerates and esteems him,
and that she defers to him, and praises him,
and loves and admires him exceedingly.""
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Such a good post! I'd highly recommend Nikki's words to any lady out there. :)